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Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Top 10 Favorite Mom Hairstyles (That Don't Look Like Mom Hairstyles)

This is a simple enough post - My Top 10 Favorite Mom Hairstyles (That Don't Look Like Mom Hairstyles). The second part of the title is key - no mama wants to look like she hasn't had time to do her hair. No mama wants to look like she is secretly balding after all her crazy postpartum hormones are all whack. No mama wants to look like she is sporting greasy hair because she hasn't been able to shower for three days straight.
So, my saving grace in the hair department comes from 3 amazing bloggers. Let me introduce you!

Bethany // former Treasures & Travels contributor
My all-time favorite blogger would be Bethany Menzel who used to be a contributor blogger to the Treasures and Travels blog. However, because she is a mommy herself, she ended up leaving the T&T blog in order to focus more on her mommy and wife roles. While I LOVE her for that, I also hate her for it because she was basically my sole reason for perusing through Treasures and Travels so faithfully! I love Tegan and Lindsay (the other two bloggers), but Bethany was definitely my favorite ;) My love for her started when I discovered that she has the exact same hair type as me. Exact! When you find someone who has amazing hair and has the same hair type as you, you simply must stalk them because if their hair looks good sporting a certain style, so will yours! I've spent most of my life trying to get great hair like people in magazines or movies, but the truth is, your hair will never look exactly the same as those people's unless you have the same hair type. Bethany Menzel is the only other person in the world of bloggers who seems to have my hair type. So! There you have it. Bethany is my hair idol :) I now creepily stalk her on her personal blog and Instagram since she no longer contributes to Treasures and Travels.

Emily // The Freckled Fox
My next favorite blogger would have to be Emily from The Freckled Fox. When you look at her blog, you will probably think "right, how could I ever have gorgeous mermaid hair like THAT???" BUT! Emily swears that her hair is just normal and relatively thin like the rest of us normal people! Her secret is just making it look like her hair has tons of body and volume. Her hair tutorials are fun because she can basically do anything with her hair. She is seriously incredibly talented!!

Amber // Barefoot Blonde

Last but not least is the gorgeous Amber from Barefoot Blonde :) Anything related to braids - Amber is your girl. This girl will open your eyes to the wonderful world of BRAIDS. She can show you how to do a French braid or fishtail in a hundred different ways. Plus she goes on incredible adventures all over the world with her adorable little family!

Alright, now that I've introduced you to my top 3 favorite bloggers, I give you:

MY TOP 10 FAVORITE MOM HAIRSTYLES 
(that don't look like Mom Hairstyles)

1) The Top Knot <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Treasures & Travels Blog
Alright- before you scroll ahead - hold up a second. This is not just ANY top knot. This is a textured, funky spin on the classic top knot, which puts it in its very own category. This hairstyle is perfect for rocking 3-day-old oily hair (let's be honest - that happens a lot!) or fresh, out of the shower wet hair (like that ever happens)!

2) The Headscarf Roll <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of The Freckled Fox
I used to see college girls sporting this hairstyle in Chicago and assume it was way out of my hair league. It just looks so chic and hipster - it's impossible that it could actually take less than one minute to do...right? WRONG! Grab a headband or hair scarf and have fun looking like you actually had time to spend on your hair for once. Because who says moms can't be chic and adorable too??

3) The Front Row Braid <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Barefoot Blonde
Another hairstyle that may seem basic but I promise you that if you check it out, it won't disappoint. Amber lets you in on a few secrets to making your front row braid thick even when you don't have thick hair ;) 

4) The Sleek Pony <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of The Freckled Fox
I think that high pony tails are entirely underrated. To me they turn a boring mom into a spunky one - but only if they're done right! Check out Emily's tutorial on the sleek pony!

5) The Half-Up Top Knot <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Treasures & Travels Blog
This is my go-to hairstyle when I actually want to feel feminine and girly and wear my hair down for once. The best thing about this hairstyle is that it allows me to do that while still keeping my hair off my face. Bonus: this tutorial is for long OR short hair!
Courtesy of Barefoot Blonde
I know, I know. This one looks pretty extravagant. But I promise it's a lot easier than it looks! Which is one of the secrets to being a hair savvy mommy, right?? I LOVE this gorgeous fishtail halo braid. A new spin on a timeless look.

7) The Side Braid <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Barefoot Blonde
Okay, even though this girl looks like she seriously has Disney princess hair, I promise she is human and that this look is actually attainable for normal people like us! This braid is basic, basic, basic, but it totally gives the impression that you 1) have a lot more hair than you actually do and 2) have a lot more time than you actually have. Win-win!

8) The Hair Roll <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Treasures & Travels Blog
This hairstyle is so easy it's crazy. Similar to the headscarf roll, this look is both feminine and flattering! When I first attempted it, it literally took me less than 2 minutes. And I only had to read the tutorial once. That's how easy it was.

9) The Textured Sock Bun <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of The Freckled Fox
Sock buns are pretty popular and there really isn't any secret to the perfectly round buns that you see hundreds of women sporting these days - but Emily makes this look her own by adding some texture which I love!! Makes it more of an everyday look in my opinion, rather than a fancy-occasion-only option.

10) The Braided Crown <<<<<<<<<
Courtesy of Treasures & Travels blog
I like Bethany's version of this look because she leaves out little strands of hair around her face which keeps it from looking like a Heidi-inspired look. Again, SUPER easy and feminine - a combo I really love in case you couldn't tell.

Well, there you have it! My top ten favorite mom hairstyles - and do you agree that they don't at all look like typical mom hairstyles??? Right??!?! Well get this - each of these women are actually... you guessed it... MOMS!
Emily // The Freckled Fox // Mama to 5
Amber // Barefoot Blonde // Mama to 1.5
Bethany // Treasures & Travels, BethanyMenzel // Mama to 2 (one in heaven)

I hope you take some time to read about each of them because they are truly beautiful women inside AND out.

What is YOUR favorite go-to mommy-hairstyle? Comment below!
Randie Megan

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Comparison: Ergobaby Carrier vs. Sakura Bloom Ring Sling

It's been some time since writing my last comparison entry on baby carriers. Since then, my daughter has grown quite a bit what with turning 1 and all, and as a result I have found myself reaching for different carriers than I used to! Like I said before in my comparison between a Bibetts and Sakura Bloom ring sling, I don't have nearly the elaborate stash that you'll find many mamas have, but I do have a Bibetts ring sling, a Sakura Bloom ring sling, an Ergobaby carrier, and a Mei Tai.
Before I get to which carrier is my absolute favorite, let me make a short list of my favorite things about each, starting with the Sakura Bloom.

Ryenne (~6 months here) & I at the Farmer's Market
"Kangaroo Carry"

Sakura Bloom Ring Sling (Classic) in Acadia
$98.00
  • completely adjustable
  • lightweight and non-bulky - easy to keep in the diaper bag
  • linen
  • machine washable
  • the Classic version is a single layer of linen which allows for a front carry, kangaroo carry (front forward facing), and hip carry
We like to use it for:
  • shorter walks
  • "emergency" situations (aka my child only wants to be held and my arms are about to fall off)
  • since it is so lightweight and non-bulky, we keep it in the diaper bag at all times so that we always have a carrier on hand


Ryenne (~6 months) & David
"Front Carry"
Original Ergobaby Carrier in Aussie Khaki
  • more of a "backpack style" carrier
  • includes a hood
  • 2 pockets
  • ergonomic (meaning that it keeps the baby's legs spread apart in a natural "froggy" fashion rather than holding up the baby by the crotch - a known cause of hip dysplasia in babies)
  • cotton
  • all straps are adjustable (even the hood)
  • 3 carry positions - back, hip, and front
  • machine washable

We like to use it for:

  • hiking
  • shopping trips
  • going on walks
  • putting her to sleep - it's the only carrier she will sleep in (and she falls asleep FAST)
  • anything and everything

Based on that last point, you are probably already guessing which carrier is my favorite. The Ergobaby. As much as I do LOVE that I am able to stow away the ring sling so easily (and, let's be honest, it's so pretttttyyyy), the Ergobaby is much more comfortable on a long-term basis now that my daughter is bigger and heavier and longer. Maybe if I wore the ring sling enough I would develop better back and shoulder muscles in the right places, but the thing I love about the Ergo is that my daughter is basically one with me! It's like being pregnant again... sort of. Her weight is evenly dispersed between my shoulders and my hips - with NO strain whatsoever to my back. Even my mom, who has back issues (sciatica and an inflamed disc), was perfectly comfortable carrying my daughter in the Ergo.
Bonus: my husband prefers the Ergo as he feels it is more "masculine" than the ring sling - although he has worn the ring sling before too ;) (Real men do it).
And if you have read my comparison between Bibetts and Sakura Bloom, you'll note that I had mentioned that my daughter did not like the Ergo. Well, one day she just decided that it didn't bother her anymore, and now she loves it. I think it had something to do with her finally being able to peer over the back of the carrier instead of being tucked away deep inside. That being said, I do think that if we ever had another baby that the ring sling would once again be my go-to as baby would be much less heavy as a newborn, and you really can't beat the convenience and ease of toting around a light piece of fabric that magically transforms into a baby carrier.
So, I guess the real answer is that BOTH are my favorites - but at different stages of my baby's life! I loved the Sakura Bloom for her infancy, but the Ergo is unbeatable for carrying a toddler. Currently my (and my husband's) favorite baby carrier is the Ergo. It comes along with us pretty much everywhere despite the awkward shape and bulkiness. The comfort of the fit when it's on totally outweighs the hassle of lugging it around.
Which carrier do you prefer? Do you have an Ergobaby or a Sakura Bloom?
Thanks for reading!!
Randie Megan
And an extra picture just for kicks:
Ryenne Ashley knocked out on Daddy's
back during a family walk one day haha

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Comparison: Bibetts vs. Sakura Bloom Ring Slings



Do you baby wear? Chances are if you are reading this, you do - or at least are interested in it! Baby wearing was a pretty foreign concept/term to me pre-baby, but as a new mama I have fallen in love. Like all self-proclaimed babywearers, I do have a few different carriers (ring slings, an Ergo, and a Mei Tai), but I definitely have my favorites. And that would be: the Ring Sling.
Like I said before, just a few months ago I had absolutely no idea what ring slings were. I had, in fact, seen a few mothers wearing their babies in ring slings, and just assumed that was another hippie mother thing to do. For some reason it reminded me of wearing a turban. Don't ask me why, but those are the images that came to mind when I would see women walking around with their babies all wrapped up in these long pieces of fabric.
I began searching for alternate ways of carrying my daughter, Ryenne, when I realized that as a newborn she was constantly wanting to nurse, which meant that I was constantly sitting down holding her and watching my house decay and the dust build up and the dishes pile high. It was pretty miserable. I started to wonder if maybe I could wear her and learn to nurse like that. I grabbed my Ergo carrier and tried to give it a shot. Well, as much as I love the Ergo and think that it is probably the most comfortable way to carry a baby, my daughter would have absolutely none of it. She would stiffen and scream and wail in that thing. Plus, it was pretty hard to nurse in. Maybe it's because I don't have the most voluptuous boobs, but whatever the reason, nursing in the Ergo was almost equivalent to trying to nurse an angry cat.
I started researching baby carriers, and that's when my eyes were opened to the world of ring slings. Suddenly turbans weren't popping into mind, but instead I was envisioning the freedom I could potentially have to simultaneously nurse, clean, cook, and cuddle!
Well, something else that I stumbled upon while doing all my research was the sobering reality of just how expensive most ring slings are. There was no way that my husband and I could afford to buy a sling for upwards of $100. With that information acquired, I began looking at my options for more budget-friendly ring slings.
That's when I discovered Bibetts.
Bibetts sells handmade, pure linen ring slings for about $40 + shipping. They had wonderful reviews, so I was thrilled that my ring sling dream might become a reality!
Here's where my comparison/review comes in:
I'm sad to say that Bibetts has terrible customer service. I did not receive my sling for two weeks +, and when I tried to email the shop owner about it, she did not reply for days. The sling sat in Texas (where the shop is located) for most of that time, until the shop owner got back to me saying she had lost an entire order of slings (mine included) and that she was now sending out a new one.
But! That aside, my first ring sling was life changing for me! It took a little while for me to get used to it and fall in love (especially with the shipping delays), but eventually I was hooked! I love that I can throw a sling in the diaper bag and that I can carry my daughter in so many different carrys - she can face in, face out, sit on my hip, or even recline in a nursing position.
Bibetts was a GREAT way for me to be introduced to the wonderful world of ring slings. Here are some pros and cons that I have found with my Bibetts pure linen ring sling.

pc: Bibetts Etsy shop - Listed at $39

Pros:

  • Purchasing a sling from here was extremely budget-friendly. $40 for a ring sling - you can't beat that!
  • The linen is sturdy but also lightweight, making it breathable and comfortable to wear even on hot days.
  • After several washes, it has become "worn in," which means that it is floppy and comfortable and basically you feel as if you aren't wearing anything!
Cons:

  • Bibetts has (had, perhaps? To give them the benefit of the doubt) terrible customer service.
  • In my experience, it takes a long time to ship your sling, and consequently that really caused me to lose a lot of my enthusiasm for this "deal" overall.
  • I've noticed a little fraying along the hem of my sling. Not sure if this is a problem yet, but it could potentially be in the future.

Now that we've covered Bibetts, I'll switch gears to my Sakura Bloom experience!
I have been following Sakura Bloom's Instagram account (username: lovesakurabloom) for a few months now, and I have always, always been drooling over their gorgeous slings. They make their slings out of the most beautiful colors.
The reason I didn't run out the door and buy a Sakura Bloom right away though, is because they are actually pretty pricey! Their "cheapest" slings go for $98 plus tax and shipping. Not cheap!! They also make slings out of silk which I can't even fathom being able to purchase...
Anyway, for Christmas my in-laws gifted my husband and me a good chunk of Christmas money and insisted on spending it on something for ourselves (aka not on groceries or bills haha). It took me a couple of weeks to figure out just what I wanted, but once I realized that I finally had the opportunity to buy one of these beauties, I was sold!
On top of that, because I was following Sakura Bloom on Instagram, I was aware of a fluke sale that they had for one day only! They were offering 20% off of ALL their slings - and just so you know, this was the only discount day that Sakura Bloom has ever had! I am so glad I stumbled upon that happy discovery. I hopped online and was able to finally purchase one of their beautiful classic linen slings at 20% off :) That still meant that I got it for under a hundred bucks!
I have had a few weeks now to try out my Sakura Bloom, and let me just say: it is definitely my favorite. Here is my list of pros and cons for my Sakura Bloom ring sling.

pc: Sakura Bloom's website - Listed at $98
Sakura Bloom "Acadia"
Pros:

  • This sling is durable. I never have to worry about my daughter not feeling secure enough in it, which is something that I sometimes worry about with my Bibetts sling just because the fabric is so thin and flimsy.
  • My Sakura Bloom is both wider and longer than my Bibetts ring sling. Wider means that my daughter has even more fabric to be "pocketed" into, and longer means that I have a longer tail with which to cover myself when nursing, or shade baby on a sunny day.
  • The color. It's just beautiful. The pictures don't do it justice.
  • I feel that because the linen is sturdier and thicker than the Bibetts sling, that it is easier to maneuver when adjusting. I don't have to worry about pulling some seams or something like I might in my Bibetts sling.
  • I prefer the way that the Sakura Bloom's rings are sewn in place over Bibetts. I have included a couple comparison shots at the end of this post so you can get a better idea of what I mean.
  • Shipping was FAST! I received my sling within a WEEK. Talk about instant gratification...
Cons:
  • Let's face it. Sakura Bloom slings are not cheap. As if they aren't priced high enough, they also tack on shipping and that adds another several dollars.
  • Because the fabric is thicker and more durable, that also means that it is a little hotter to wear than I've experienced with my Bibetts sling.
  • Again, thicker fabric = bulkier material, which results in it taking up a little more room in the diaper bag.
Despite the very few cons that I have listed for the Sakura, I honestly do not think those are big issues at all when you realize how great of a product you have. There is a world of difference between the feel of both slings. Overall, the Bibetts sling is cheaper, lighter, and to some degree comfier, but the Sakura Bloom is more durable, more quality, easier, longer, wider, bigger, better, and basically just beautifuler.
That said, if you are looking to invest in a really good quality sling, I highly recommend going with Sakura Bloom. But if you are just wanting a good introduction to the world of slings, then by all means try it out by getting a Bibetts :)


Close up of my Bibetts ring sling's rings and the way they are
sewn in. As you can see, there is a little bit of frabic, and just
overall wear beginning to show.

Close up of my Sakura Bloom's rings and sewing detail.
Yeah... 'nough said.
Thanks for stopping by and reading today! What are your favorite baby carriers? Do you have a Sakura Bloom or Bibetts sling?

//EDIT 08.13.15//
Check out my ErgoBaby Carrier vs. Sakura Bloom Ring Sling comparison post to see which carrier I prefer to use with my now older baby!

Friday, January 23, 2015

My Oily Journey + a Wipe Solution Recipe!

Well folks, here comes my confession. I am an oily mama. You may have guessed it already after reading that I cloth diaper my daughter, but yes, I am also into essential oils. Young Living Essential Oils, to be specific :)
My oily journey actually started out as a cloth diapering tangent. I was busy researching away, when I read that when cloth diapering, you typically use cloth wipes as well because it makes a lot more sense to just throw everything into one (laundry) bag rather than throwing the diaper in one bag and the wipes in another. Before I knew it, I was reading about baby wipes and baby wipe solution, when I came across a curious ingredient: "a few drops of essential oils." What was that?? I hadn't really heard about essential oils before, so I began researching that as well.
A week or two before this discovery, I had heard a good friend of mine casually mention essential oils at a women's retreat, so I decided that since she obviously knew a thing or two about oils, I would ask her if there was a way I could purchase some Lavender or Tea Tree Oil through her (those seemed to be the most common and were called for in a baby wipe solution) - as long as it wasn't too expensive. She was more than happy to talk to me about them, and promised to bring a few samples the next time I saw her.
I, however, being the impatient person that I am, was way too excited about my cloth diapering journey and wanted to get crackin' on wipes and the wipe solution. I decided to head over to Trader Joe's and see if they might have any Lavender or Tea Tree Oil, and then to figure out the rest of the ingredients on my own. Trader Joe's had some Tea Tree Oil, and I assumed (wrongly) that all oils are created equal and so this would be sure to do the job nicely. Before I knew it, I had whipped up a batch of "wipe solution" and was able to start using it on my daughter without having to wait on my friend's samples! It seemed like I was all set!
Within a few days, my daughter's skin started to redden. At first I wasn't sure what the cause was, but I soon discovered that not only was Tea Tree Oil not the best choice of essential oils for babies under 6 months, but I also learned that not all oils labeled "essential oils" are actually therapeutic grade aka the real deal! Devastated that my hastiness had resulted in a sore bottom for my little girl, I began to be more thorough in my essential oils research.
I learned that Lavender was actually a better choice for babies under 6 months because it is a whole lot gentler than Tea Tree. My friend also got back to me as promised, and instead of giving me a few samples, she and her husband gifted us an entire Young Living Premium Starter Kit. To understand the amazingness of this gift, here is a little visual aid:
This kit is $150 wholesale, with a retail value of over $300!
I was both blown away and touched by our friends' generosity! Little did I know, this would be one of the best gifts I would ever receive: the gift of health + endless possibilities.
Now that I knew that I had an amazing starter kit on the way, I began researching even more. I had never heard of Young Living before - only doTerra, and I was curious as to why one company would be a wiser choice over another. I learned that doTerra (which is actually a company that branched off from Young Living), while cheaper, does not offer as near as many oils as Young Living does, and that they do not oversee their oils and farms in the same amazing Seed-to-Seal process that Young Living faithfully maintains. I also learned that Young Living has been around a whole lot longer - 20+ years, to be exact! All of this information made me all the more excited to begin my oily adventure.
By the time my kit came, I could scarcely contain my excitement. After days of constantly checking the mail, it finally arrived one crazy hectic day while my husband and I were in the midst of our HUGE move from Chicago to Hawaii. I was most excited about my diffuser, and so I opened that bad boy up, plugged it in, and - now the best part - which oil would I diffuse first? We chose Stress Away (a blend of oils put together to promote stress relief), and - just like that, I became an oily wife/mama. I was hooked.
Since then, I have incorporated these precious oils into my everyday life. At night I apply a diluted blend of oils to the bottom of my daughter's feet which promotes sleep (her sleeping habits improved dramatically after the very first time I used it on her), I diffuse a little Lavender + Cedarwood in our room to help us sleep better at night, I will dab a little Tea Tree Oil aka Melaleuca Alternifolia on any acne and it dries up by morning, rub some Peppermint on my temples to combat my horrendous allergies, and in the morning I have the exciting task of choosing which oil(s) I will diffuse for the day!
I have also been able to make my OWN, safe, non-toxic, non-poisonous, natural cleaning supplies! From glass cleaner, to all-purpose cleaning spray, to bug repellant, to toilet cleaner! And I can't tell you what a relief it is to know that should my increasingly mobile daughter ever decide to raid my cupboards and get into Mommy's cleaning supplies, I won't have to call poison control and make a trip to the ER!
The possibilities are ENDLESS with Young Living Essential Oils. Note that I only recommend Young Living as it is the brand that I trust after thoroughly researching the different brands of essential oils and the different essential oil making processes. And like I mentioned earlier, not all oils are created equal - and I can attest to the bad side affects that can occur when using another "essential oil" brand.
If you are wondering how you can get started on investing into your family's health via the oily train, then wonder no further! I'm here to help :) Getting your hands on Young Living's essential oils is easy once you know someone who can help you out! There are two options to consider when converting (haha):
First, you can purchase the oils as a retail member. You will purchase whatever oils you want that Young Living has to offer (and believe me, there are TONS!) at retail value + shipping. This might be an ideal choice for you if you are unsure about essential oils, but still want to get started on one or two that you have heard good things about, without investing the initial $$$ it costs to become a member with wholesale privileges.
This leads me to the second option. You can also purchase essential oils as a wholesale member by signing up using my link (here & below)! This enables you to purchase oils at a wholesale cost which is 24% less than retail!! In order to become a member, you need to purchase a starter kit. Like cloth diapering, this is a lot of money upfront, but in the long run it pays itself off and is the cheaper option! I highly recommend the Premium Starter Kit (above) as it not only includes samples, cool info, a roller attachment, and a diffuser (worth $100 itself I might add), but it also includes ELEVEN essential oils! This is an amazing way to jumpstart your oily journey! I have been able to create SO many concoctions with my starter kit oils! It was over 3 months before I began to run out of certain oils, and even today the majority of my oil collection is oils that I was first introduced to from the starter kit!
So! This is a brief overview of how you can get your hands on some oils, so I won't bother you with all the hundred other benefits that stem from being a wholesale member of Young Living oils. I can save that for a future post! But for now, I will stop here and leave you with that Wipe Solution Recipe that originally got me interested in the wonderful world of essential oils :)


Fluff Wipe Solution

  • 1 T oil (olive or melted coconut - I use coconut)
  • 1 T Dr. Bronner's Baby Mild Castille Soap
  • 4-5 drops essential oils (Now that my daughter is over 6 months, I use 3 drops Lavender, 2 drops Melaleuca Alternifolia/Tea Tree)
  • 1 C water
  • A squirt bottle (I use the bottle they gave me at the hospital after I had Ryenne)
Add all the ingredients into the bottle. Shake before each use to make sure oil is evenly distributed.

I usually squirt this solution onto the wipe right when I'm changing my daughter's diaper. Then I just toss it in with the rest of the cloth diapers! The reason I prefer to use coconut oil over olive is because coconut is also really good for getting rid of yeast infections, so I use it as a preventative measure. 
For cloth wipes, I simply use the hundreds of baby washcloths that we were gifted at every baby shower haha They do the job perfectly!

Lastly, here is my sign-up link if you would like to purchase some oils or become a wholesale  member yourself today!!


As always, email me if you have any questions, comments, or suggestions!

Happy oiling, my friends! What are some of your oily adventure stories??


Sunday, November 9, 2014

Cloth Diapering as a Newbie Part I: bumGenius 4.0s & AIOs

If you would have asked me just 6 months ago about cloth diapers, I would have laughed and probably even rolled my eyes. You see, I used to think that only hippie moms used cloth diapers. But then I had a baby of my own. The first month or two were fine as plenty of people had gifted us with disposables in size N through 1, but over the next couple of months (my daughter, Ryenne, is 4 months old now), I learned that the cost of buying disposables adds up. FAST. It felt like we were always heading to the store to buy more diapers or wipes, and sometimes, when we would need them in a pinch, we would just buy them at the nearest Jewel Osco or Wal Mart Express instead of waiting for the better bargain by making a trip to Costco.
That's when I first began to consider cloth.
I started researching cloth diapers: washing them, using them, buying them, etc. It just so happens that there are about a billion and one different types of cloth diapers. And there was all this fancy lingo like "AIO" or "pockets" or "stuffing" or "pilling" that everyone kind of assumed that all mothers knew. Well, I was clueless. I had no idea where to start.

This is basically me after I began researching cloth.

After being advised to just pick a brand and try it out, we decided to go with bumGenius 4.0s and Freetimes. It's pretty confusing to look up those two styles of bumGenius though, because they appear to be exactly the same! One helpful mama took the time to actually take pictures of what exactly a pocket-style and all-in-one looked like. That's when it clicked and I finally understood how these confounded diapers worked! So that's exactly what I'm going to do with you! However, since I am still a newbie at all of this, you are only going to get to look at two different styles of bumGenius, since that is all that my stash consists of at the moment. So far, I'm not even curious about trying other styles because I am just so happy with my bumGenius diapers.

Style #1: bumGenius 4.0 Pocket-Style Cloth Diaper


Pocket-style means that there is a pocket in which you "stuff" the microfiber insert (it comes with two: the resizable one that you can adjust as your baby gets older, and the infant insert, which works GREAT for layering overnight). Confused yet? That's why I'm including lots and lots of pictures. I don't know about you, but things are always much easier to understand when there are pictures!

Close-up of the 4.0

I chose to go the snap route instead of the velcro because I
read that snap diapers tend to have a longer life expectancy 
4.0 Opened up
Here's the pocket with the microfiber insert inside (it came
with the diaper)
This is all that you get with a bumGenius 4.0 diaper:
Infant insert, adjustable microfiber insert, & pocket-style diaper

Style #2: bumGenius Freetimes Cloth Diaper


The Freetime diaper is an all-in-one diaper. Looks pretty identical, right? That's why I was so confused at first. The difference is when you open them up:
Left: Freetimes All-in-One
Right: 4.0 Pocketstyle with Inserts
Instead of inserts like the 4.0s, the Freetime inserts are actually attached to the diaper itself. It looks like this:

Personally I like having both of these, but I will admit that I favor the 4.0s. Oddly enough, when I first heard about these two styles, I thought for sure I would like the Freetimes better because they just sounded so easy! But, I LOVE that you can layer inserts (or not) in the 4.0s, and that's what makes it more of a winner for me. Yes, you can still layer inserts in a Freetime, but that makes it way too bulky in my opinion. Bulkiness was one of the biggest adjustments for me. I really like the slim fit of disposables, but with cloth, my daughter's teeny little behind is magnified by 10x into a bubble butt! Someone pointed out, though, that this is actually a pro for when baby starts walking as it cushions the landing on their little tushies.
Another concern that I had when I first starting using cloth was the fact that my daughter's legs seemed to "froggy out" a lot more than they did in disposables. I have been reassured by many mothers that this does not inhibit their growth and development in anyway, and they even pointed out that just a few years ago everyone wore cloth. And no one is walking around with cloth-diaper-induced disabilities. That made me feel a lot better.
Here is one last picture so you can see what the diaper looks like completely unsnapped and at it's largest size:

Right now Ryenne is still on the smallest setting and that works perfectly. I read on the bumGenius website that when you layer multiple inserts (like you might do for overnight use) that it's a good idea to go up a size to allow for more room. However, I tried that on my daughter and the legs were way too gappy. So she still sleeps comfortably with the smallest setting.
I think that pretty much wraps up the very basics of these two diapers. Stay tuned on New Wife, New Mama to read more about my cloth diapering experience: using, washing/drying, my list of essentials,  favorite cloth-diapering links, etc. This is only Part I!